Better handle fast queries when backend filtering `DataTable`

[brian-smith-tcril]

The behavior demonstrated in https://paragon-openedx.netlify.app/components/datatable/#backend-filtering-and-sorting feels reasonable with the 1s timeout

Screencast.From.2025-11-13.22-47-09.mp4

changing it to 10ms, however, makes it quite jumpy

Screencast.From.2025-11-13.22-46-31.mp4

Changing it to use a CardView makes this even worse

1s:

Screencast.From.2025-11-13.22-53-24.mp4

10ms:

Screencast.From.2025-11-13.22-54-14.mp4