Upgrade sqlx and implement db detection #1722

Job	Run time
test (postgres, postgres, postgres://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	4m 20s
test (odbc, postgres, Driver={PostgreSQL Unicode};Server=127.0.0.1;Port=5432;Database=sqlpage;UID...	5m 27s
compile_and_lint	5m 18s
docker_build (linux/arm64)	8m 25s
test (mysql, mysql, mysql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	3m 48s
test (mssql, mssql, mssql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	4m 44s
docker_build (linux/arm/v7)	9m 12s
windows_test	8m 23s
docker_build (linux/amd64)	8m 6s
docker_push	-1s
	57m 42s

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