TOMEE-4569 - TomEE Maven Plugin fails in debug mode in Java 22+

[rzo1]

If TomEE is run via TomEE Maven Plugin in debug mode, the option "-Xnoagent" is added to the JVM arguments.

On Java 25 the JVM will crash as this option was deprecated in Java 22 and subsequently removed in Java 23. We should check the Java version before adding it to the startup arguments.

This PR update the options to the modern version.

[jungm]

looks good to me, googling these flags real quick I also found https://docs.oracle.com/javase/6/docs/technotes/guides/jpda/conninv.html#Invocation

Sun's VM implementations require command line options to load the JDWP agent for debugging. From 5.0 onwards the -agentlib:jdwp option is used to load and specify options to the JDWP agent. For releases prior to 5.0, the -Xdebug and -Xrunjdwp options are used (the 5.0 implementation also supports the -Xdebug and -Xrunjdwp options but the newer -agentlib:jdwp option is preferable as the JDWP agent in 5.0 uses the JVM TI interface to the VM rather than the older JVMDI interface).

I think it's safe to just always use the -agentlib:jdwp over the -Xdebug -Xrunjdwp flag