Datetime default fix (fixes 126 & 175)

[bilsalak]

fix for issues 126 & 175, making default value compliant with MySQL datetime range and supporting SQL Modes NO_ZERO_DATE=1, NO_ZERO_IN_DATE=1, and ALLOW_INVALID_DATES=0

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