Add the ability to trace TensorList in-place ops

[alanwaketan]

Summary:
To trace through c10d::all_gather, AOT needs to support TensorList
in-place ops.

Companion PyTorch PR: pytorch#77940.

Test Plan:
WIP.

[byronyi]

This PR should be raised in core PyTorch as make_fx is moved there.

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