Add GraphLayout.setProps lifecycle and refactor layouts to use it

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Summary

• add a base GraphLayout.setProps implementation with validation hooks and automatic graph updates
• route GraphEngine, LegacyGraphLayoutAdapter, and layout subclasses through the new API instead of mutating props
• document the workflow and extend tests to cover prop updates and SimpleLayout accessors

Testing

• yarn test-node

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