[C++][CMake] Fix install/export targets and Windows runtime handling

[tanmoyPaul12]

Fixes #810

Reason for this PR

The current CMake installation logic in GraphAr does not reliably support
library distribution and downstream consumption, especially on Windows.

This PR addresses the CMake install and export issues discussed in #810
and makes runtime installation behavior consistent across platforms.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Remove duplicate and conflicting install logic for the graphar target
• Define a single canonical install(TARGETS graphar ...) rule
• Ensure headers and CMake package config files are installed correctly
• Fix Windows runtime (DLL) installation issues during cmake --install
• Validate installation with MSVC + vcpkg + Apache Arrow

Are these changes tested?

• Windows 11
• MSVC (Visual Studio 2026)
• CMake + vcpkg
• Apache Arrow installed via vcpkg (arrow[dataset,parquet])
• Verified:
  • cmake --build . --config Release
  • cmake --install . --config Release
  • Generated headers and CMake config files

Are there any user-facing changes?

No. This change affects CMake install and packaging behavior only and does not
modify GraphAr APIs or runtime behavior.

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[yangxk1]

Hi @tanmoyPaul12 Thanks for the update! This PR improves the installation paths (especially for Windows), but it doesn't fully resolve #810 yet.

To fully support find_package(GraphAr) and the requested distribution goals, we still need:

1. The install(EXPORT ...) command to actually generate and install the CMake target files.
2. The RPATH configuration (e.g., $ORIGIN) and the hybrid linking strategy mentioned in the issue discussion.

Could you please address these points?